Your confidence does not lay in your looks dear. Don't depend on your looks for confidence. Self confidence is not based on outer looks. Confidence comes from within. Deep within you, dear. I am attracted to you not just because of your beauty alone. I have fallen for the person deep inside you. I have fallen for the Ong Jin that I knew through the phone, blog, msn, EOY and also, the person that I'm sharing my life with.